me:  sorry I dropped off the face of the earth, I've been so busy haha wow life
me:  actually I've been too depressed to get out of bed or contact anyone haha wow life

One of the risks of being quiet is that other people can fill your silence with their own interpretation: You’re bored. You’re depressed. You’re shy. You’re stuck up. You’re judgmental. When others can’t read us, they write their own story—not always one we choose or that’s true to who we are.